
About Mei Shih
Your Path to an Amicable Resolution. A big life change can feel overwhelming, but the legal process doesn't have to be a battle. I'm Mei (pronounced May), a family law attorney here to guide you toward a respectful, out-of-court resolution, with expertise, clarity, and a supportive touch. My mission is to help you feel informed, empowered, and ready for what's next - prioritizing your family's peace of mind.
Growing up as a "language broker" for my non-English speaking parents taught me patience, empathy, and the power of clear communication - skills I now bring to every client. I simplify complex legal issues and break down jargon, and help you negotiate durable agreements and navigate family law with confidence and dignity.
With over 15 years of experience, my practice is client centered, focusing on low-conflict solutions tailored to your needs, including Collaborative Law, Mediation services, and Unbundled Representation. By focusing on resolution over litigation, I offer thoughtful, practical guidance so you can make informed decisions, preserve important relationships, and move forward with clarity and confidence.
Professional & Community
Engagement
I have always loved supporting our local communities by volunteering with some amazing nonprofit organizations. If you are interested in learning more, getting involved, or even becoming a sponsor, I would be happy to connect you! In the meantime, here’s a little peek at some of the things I have been up to and the organizations I am currently involved with.
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Family Law CASA - Vice President of the Board of Directors
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King County Bar Association, Collaborative Law Section - Vice Chair
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International Families Justice Coalition - Co-Chair of the Board of Directors
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King County Collaborative Law - Member
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King County Bar Association, Kinship Care Solutions Project - LAARK Volunteer Attorney
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Washington State Bar Licensure Task Force, Core Competencies Subcommittee - Member
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ABAW/CISC Legal Clinic - Volunteer Attorney
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Washington First Responder Will Clinic - Volunteer Attorney
Publications & Presentations
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M. Shih, February 2026, Family Law Basics with a Focus on Collaborative Law Divorce, class for King County Law Library.
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M. Shih, Ongoing Speaker, Washington Divorce Workshop.
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International Families Justice Coalition, Dec. 2024, Family Law Involving Domestic Violence for International Marriages CLE [panel presentation].
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Washington State Bar Association, Bar News, Sept. 2023, Issue Spotting: Perspectives on Washington's Article 2 of the UGCOPA.
Mei gave the best collaborative Family Law one-hour topic summary I have ever seen. Her presentation was succinct and a great refresher for me.
Playful Bio
It's always fun to learn about your attorney's personality and how they became the attorney they are now. Read these fun features about me.
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King County Bar, Bar Bulletin, Making Seattle Home, One Cold Call at a Time, Jan. 2026 Issue [pdf].
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Washington State Bar Association, Bar News, Beyond the Bar Number, Sept. 2025 Issue.
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Washington State Bar Association, Solo and Small Practice Section, January 2025 Spotlight.
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Washington State Bar Association, February 2025 #LegalThreads Feature.